Suicide

[Freak93]

Most of it is probably in your head. Also, don't give two shits about anything with Myspace. If someone doesn't comment you back, big deal it is the internet. Just keep your head up dude. I have plenty of days like that. You can't let other people dictate your emotions entirely. If they aren't talking to you, go talk to them. Maybe they are having a shitty day but too shy to go talk to anyone about it.

[JackTheRipper]

I don't let things get me down. Just angry. Very, very angry.

[Keeper]

The internet will NEVER help how you feel socially.

I remember one day when I was in a real low because of dating and such stuff, I took the bus downtown, and just went around doing my usual stuff. Only I used a British accent, and decided to approach every girl I was interested in (within reason of course). By being someone else and not playing to my insecurities, I was really successful. You just have to realize that if you display that you're insecure, it will only make dating and such worse.

[jct32]

'Preciate the advice guys, It's probably due to the fact that I have no self-confindence. Yea, I just got done texting some girl, I was texting my friend Chan, (who is the pimp that is mentioned earlier) and guess what, the girl he is going after (A.J. the other girl already mentioned inside my posts) started texting me with his phone. O well talking to people boost my confindence, even if its myspace/texting.

O BTW, the girl who wasn't answering my messages sits like right next to me in my physics class, so it's kinda bothers me how she won't talk to me on myspace, but yet she talks to me in real life? Like I said earlier she always greeted me with enthusiamism, because of course I was nice to her, getting her a book for class and ect. Then all of a sudden it stopped, now I got to initate the conversation to talk to her, she never starts one with me. Like I said the other we were at the basketball game, I was sitting next to my buddy chan and she comes and sits behind us and well you know the story. It just bothers me how she had a change of attitude when I didn't even do anything, besides trying to be nice.

Sorry I'm just rambling on as I post, hopefully that made sense. I think my main problem is my confindence in myself though, any tips?

[Claytons Crew]

Is Physics hard? I had Physics honors and passed with a C because I had my friend help and do most of my work. I never could understand it.

[Freak93]

I feel most things with women can some way be answered with a viewing of 'The 40 Year Old Virgin'. In you case, I say just ask questions.

[jct32]

I'm the master of physics lol, I think my lowest grade on a test is a 107. and yea its an upper level class, infact I end up tutoring another girl in our class, who is good-looking by the way, because she doesn't understand it. But like always she has a boyfriend lol.

So basically just ask questions? I mean, I probably one of the shyest cats on the block,espicallywhen it comes to personal stuff. But if I can talk to someone a couple of times then I can usually be comfortable around them.

UPDATE: She just threw down this on MySpace

" some boy just came to my house and gave my sister
a big ol teddy bear for V-day!! lol
[why so early..idk.]
cuteness.


ugh....
the thought of not having a "certain some1" for Valentines Day suxs..
well I do have my eye on some boy....who know his feelings towards me??

: /"

LOL I think there is about a 99% chance that it is not me, but I have that little feeling inside me that I should be spontanous and go after her anyways.

[jct32]

Sorry about the double post,

I think tomorrow I'm going to talk to my man Chan, who l like I stated earlier is a ladies man, and if he has any interesting information for me, maybe some ladies interested in me. I think this stuff but I probably won't end up doing it. lol.

[Freak93]

Do it man. What is the worse that can happen?

Also, I want to say something. A lot of girls have boyfriends. I am not saying go be a dick and try and get her to break up with him. The thing is though, don't be afraid to express your feelings because she has a boyfriend. I don't know, I am having a tough time trying to convey my thought on the boards here. Basically, don't sit around waiting for single girls, you may miss out on something.

[D-Mac]

jct just because theres a goalie dont mean u cant score.

But on the real dude, dont get ur hopes up I remember when I was un-social I used to get excited when any girls would talk to me and I would almost just like think they wanted me, when really girls dont think that shit at all to some extent.

Act cool bro, act laid back, dont be needy and show her that u like her but dont follow her around or get annoying to her or anything, just be laid back with her, dont force it.

[JackTheRipper]

Honestly, the best thing you can do when it comes to girls you like is to just be yourself and play off like you don't give a f*** if they're into you. I found that out after having a gf, otherwise I'd have never known.

[JacktheRipper]

Yeah, sometimes you just have to relax about things. I have to tell myself a lot just to relax about everything. Just let go and go for it. It why I like to go to bars sometimes, you get to meet a lot of girls in a situation where no one is really themselves. These are girlfriend types, don't misunderstand, never pick up girls in a bar, but uh it helps you open up and loosen up.

[Loki]

bamarulz2020 said:

These are girlfriend types, don't misunderstand, never pick up girls in a bar, but uh it helps you open up and loosen up.

Couldn't help but think about the part in the bar in Super Bad after reading this. .

[JacktheRipper]

loki1230 said:

bamarulz2020 said:

These are girlfriend types, don't misunderstand, never pick up girls in a bar, but uh it helps you open up and loosen up.

Couldn't help but think about the part in the bar in Super Bad after reading this. .

That's what I was aiming for.

[SilverChaosVII]

jacktheripper said:

Honestly, the best thing you can do when it comes to girls you like is to just be yourself and play off like you don't give a f*** if they're into you. I found that out after having a gf, otherwise I'd have never known.

This is seriously the truth man. You really gotta have that attitude where you honestly have to have the mindset that you don't give a f*** whether or not the girl likes you. Be yourself and don't go out trying to impress anybody.

I always tried to do that. Impress every freakin girl that I liked... and it failed miserably. I was depressed for the longest time. Even suicidal thoughts over it.

Then I finally decided I didn't care anymore. It was only high school. I had a bigger life to live. I just started not caring about whether or not anybody liked me and whatnot...

... about 2 weeks later I was dating someone. Needless to say it didn't work out but I mean, I was with someone because I was myself. Not some fake. I then went out to meet another girl and I started with no expectations of anything. That was the mindset. I've now been dating her for 8 months.

Basically all I'm trying to say is be yourself. Even if you go and try to impress some girl and it actually works... they will eventually see the real you. So you might as well be that person to begin with.

And also, not to put you down. But high school relationships aren't shit. Very few of the girls and guys are mature enough to carry out a meaningful relationship. It isn't the end of the world if you aren't with anybody. Just remember that. You have a long life ahead of you. You will meet somebody sometime. It doesn't have to be right now.

Hope I was some help. Best of luck with your situation.

[Freak93]

Every conversation on DC leads to poon in some degree. I like that about this place.

[jct32]

Once again 'Preciate the feedback, I'm at school right now, just messing around because I had to take my sister up to school early, but yea I'll just quit trying to impress people and be myself. I'll post when I get home hopefully it goes well.

[JacktheRipper]

jct32 said:

Once again 'Preciate the feedback, I'm at school right now, just messing around because I had to take my sister up to school early, but yea I'll just quit trying to impress people and be myself. I'll post when I get home hopefully it goes well.

Just remember that is easier said than done. Mainly because those insecurities are still floating inside of you and well they'll hamper you along the way. You just have to either just relax and not let them beat you, or just find a way to get over them. I choose the former, and it's worked modestly well. The main thing is to relax... and not worry about such things. Life is way too short to get caught up with the little things. It's ironic me saying this, because I'm the poster child of that kind of thing. Yeah though, relax.

[jct32]

Yea, I had a pretty good day besides the fact that I horribly sick, usually it would have bothered me by how much I was sneezing and having to get up and get a kleenex. But honestly today I just didn't give a care. Which I feel is a small step, I wanted to go to the basketball game tongiht but obviously thats not possible and I'm just going to sit at home and do nothing lol.

[D-Mac]

jct32 said:

Yea, I had a pretty good day besides the fact that I horribly sick, usually it would have bothered me by how much I was sneezing and having to get up and get a kleenex. But honestly today I just didn't give a care. Which I feel is a small step, I wanted to go to the basketball game tongiht but obviously thats not possible and I'm just going to sit at home and do nothing lol.

lol i used to worry about that too, I would come to school sick and think all the girls would think im nasty. Now I could care less lol, not anything wrong with wearing a hoody and sweatpants when ur feeling under the weather.