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Post by JacktheRipper on Apr 5, 2008 15:26:31 GMT -5
yeah I still have no idea what I'm gonna do. But I'm starting realize that maybe this girl isn't worth it. I mean we've been friends for a long time and I dont want to F that up. Besides she already cheated on him and he is prob the sweetest guy in the world (Have you ever looked into his eyes? It was like the first time I heard the Beatles). I just don't know if she is worth Fing up our friendship. I mean I barely know the girl and honestly I'm not sure if my feelings for her are just stemming from the fact that I can't be with her or if I genuinely like her. Oh and I have since confirmed its not a joke because I checked with some friends (didn't give them any details of course) and they are actually together. Man this is crazy my life is turning into a bad Meg Ryan movie (or maybe an episode of Red Shoes Diaries) I can relate to your situation a little. Wasn't a fiancee type situation, nor was it a very close friend (just a friend) but uh let's just say something similar has been going on with me over the past month or so. The good news, turns out the girl is a crazy bitch and it's a good thing she didn't dump him for me. Anyway, pretty much don't go for her and I don't even know if telling the world is the best move. If she cheated on him with you though, probably not her first time. Which is a shame. |
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Post by cooljayhu on Apr 5, 2008 19:03:52 GMT -5
See, I think this is a no brainer. This is a girl you don't know at all who you have some minor feelings for. You easily take the long time friend in this instance. Let him know what a slutbag he's dating, but take the friend. yeah I've actually given it some thought and I decided that she aint worth it. The problem with your option is that I'm gonna have to back it up with something. It's gonna come out that we were together if I tell him but if I don't he may never know. So now what the blazes am I gonna do? Tell him and admit to being the "other guy" or ride it and hope that they break up and he doesn't find out. |
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Post by cooljayhu on Apr 5, 2008 22:52:56 GMT -5
And there's a twist dun dun dun...  So I went to a movie tonight (21, it was great), so after the show I check my messages and there she is. She says, "Hey, when you get this, call me. I've got some friends over we should hang out." I felt like somebody shot me. What the F am I to do? This girl is two-timing my best friend. With ME! I called her back and told I couldn't, made up some bullshit excuse. I don't know, this is way too much drama for me to handle. My life has never been this stressful, ever. |
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Post by JacktheRipper on Apr 5, 2008 22:55:45 GMT -5
And there's a twist dun dun dun... So I went to a movie tonight (21, it was great), so after the show I check my messages and there she is. She says, "Hey, when you get this, call me. I've got some friends over we should hang out." I felt like somebody shot me. What the F am I to do? This girl is two-timing my best friend. With ME! I called her back and told I couldn't, made up some bullshit excuse. I don't know, this is way too much drama for me to handle. My life has never been this stressful, ever. Tell her what's up. You know that you like her but since she's engaged to your friend, you can't go near her because of the whole guilt thing and her being a two timing bitch. You know... |
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Post by dkgojackets on Apr 5, 2008 23:01:47 GMT -5
And there's a twist dun dun dun... So I went to a movie tonight (21, it was great), so after the show I check my messages and there she is. She says, "Hey, when you get this, call me. I've got some friends over we should hang out." I felt like somebody shot me. What the F am I to do? This girl is two-timing my best friend. With ME! I called her back and told I couldn't, made up some bullshit excuse. I don't know, this is way too much drama for me to handle. My life has never been this stressful, ever. Tell her what's up. You know that you like her but since she's engaged to your friend, you can't go near her because of the whole guilt thing and her being a two timing bitch. You know... You mean, like, the truth? say wat |
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Post by Keeper on Apr 5, 2008 23:02:01 GMT -5
You should keep sleeping with her, your friend should have known better than to date a cheater.
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Post by dkgojackets on Apr 5, 2008 23:04:58 GMT -5
You should keep sleeping with her, your friend should have known better than to date a cheater. Well reasoned! |
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Post by JacktheRipper on Apr 5, 2008 23:06:32 GMT -5
You should keep sleeping with her, your friend should have known better than to date a cheater. You're the worst friend ever. But yeah, I mean, if it's just a hookup after everything blows over and she's not going to marry him, screw her brains out. |
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Post by cooljayhu on Apr 5, 2008 23:17:20 GMT -5
you guys suck at advice and bama telling her the truth will not help in fact with my experience with girls she prob end up telling my friend that I rufied her or something crazy.
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Post by JacktheRipper on Apr 5, 2008 23:23:32 GMT -5
you guys suck at advice and bama telling her the truth will not help in fact with my experience with girls she prob end up telling my friend that I rufied her or something crazy. As much as I hate to say it, you're probably getting fucked over either way here. Basically, you either do the right thing or you don't. |
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Post by cooljayhu on Apr 5, 2008 23:26:45 GMT -5
I understand I think I need to tell him but I don't think telling her that shes a whore is going to help anyone
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Post by JackTheRipper on Apr 5, 2008 23:29:13 GMT -5
you guys suck at advice and bama telling her the truth will not help in fact with my experience with girls she prob end up telling my friend that I rufied her or something crazy. Um I think i've been pretty good here. You need to fess up. This way, she can't lie and make it sound like you took advantage of her and he knows what a tramp she is. |
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Post by JacktheRipper on Apr 5, 2008 23:32:12 GMT -5
I understand I think I need to tell him but I don't think telling her that shes a whore is going to help anyone I didn't say call her a whore, I said to tell her since she's engaged to your friend, you don't want to hit it. |
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Post by dkgojackets on Apr 5, 2008 23:33:02 GMT -5
you guys suck at advice and bama telling her the truth will not help in fact with my experience with girls she prob end up telling my friend that I rufied her or something crazy. dont get mad at us, youre the one who banged your best friends fiancee |
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Post by detroitbasketball on Apr 5, 2008 23:35:25 GMT -5
Dude. Look at the people you're asking. (My advice would be pee in her butt) |
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Post by dkgojackets on Apr 6, 2008 0:03:29 GMT -5
try hitting her
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Post by cooljayhu on Apr 6, 2008 0:04:05 GMT -5
I was joking about the advice it was directed at whoever said to continue sleeping with her. Bama: you did say to tell her she's a... two-timing bitch I believe was the direct quote  David: you're right but in my defense I didn't know that at the time DB: touche. |
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Post by detroitbasketball on Apr 6, 2008 0:04:46 GMT -5
I can't believe this thread lasted two pages without someone saying "pee in her butt." I'm disappointed.
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Post by JacktheRipper on Apr 6, 2008 5:09:29 GMT -5
I was joking about the advice it was directed at whoever said to continue sleeping with her. Bama: you did say to tell her she's a... two-timing bitch I believe was the direct quote David: you're right but in my defense I didn't know that at the time DB: touche. Obviously you re-state it less...offensively. |
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Post by SilverChaosVII on Apr 7, 2008 12:39:30 GMT -5
Dude. Look at the people you're asking. (My advice would be pee in her butt) lmao, i was going to say that until i saw you posted it... ... but seriously. You need to tell your friend. If you two have been good friends since high school one girl who is nothing more than an infatuation to you shouldn't ruin that. Either way you are screwed. It's just one is the right choice and the other is wrong. You don't need a girl like that in your life. How in the hell do you know you are the ONLY other guy. She could have more for all you know. And if you were to hook up with her, whats sayin she wouldn't do the same shit to you. She isn't the person to trust... ... be honest with your friend. He may get angry, but if he is understanding and you tell him you had no idea at the time he will thank you in the long run. She could screw him over bad in the future if you don't help now. So basically, tell him. Both you need to drop that bitch and find some better ass... different ass tho... not the same girl again  |
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